"Forget it"

"Forget it"... some people use it so often in their conversations. Do they really want to end the conversation and 'forget' the topic when they say so? Do they really think the other person is stupid enough not to understand any further explanation?Or... do they just like pretending, that they are complex persons?
Well you might be wondering here comes the scribblers's over analytical opinion again...But it really irritates when an argument or discussion is abruptly stopped with this "Forget it" note.I strongly believe in speaking until the people with whom am arguing either convince me that I'm wrong or agree with me or atleast he/she should make sense in their stand.
So here are few lines dedicated to all those who love the word "Forget it".
If you are complex, simplify.
If you are frustrated, relax.
If you really need to... then move on.

I want to write

Today lets write about Love and relationships...
How evryone who are realtionships
are nagging or getting out.
And everyone who isnt in one,wants to get in....
But I think I have too many words.
Or too few :-(

Today lets write about Friends..
Friends who arent really friends
Who give you hope very often
And take it away even very often.
Friends who are life...
Who show you Life is Beautiful.
And make your Life beautiful.
But i'm scared
I cant say it all,or say anything??

Today I want to write........

Lived Happily Ever After

I have this very silly habit. Childish, really. I get so involved in a book or a movie, that it all starts seeming real, and I start looking for logical progress.Yea,dont even bother to tell me,that fiction is just a ficition.I already told ya... its a silly thing I do.
I googled the word fairytale it defines as a 'made-up story usually designed to mislead'. The most misleading part of any fairytale is not fantasy.I think, the most misleading part is the happily ever after.
Anyway, since my teenage years, I've been a big fan of mushy movies. And I used to heave a sigh of relief, when eventually, all misunderstandings were resolved, all romance was back and the lead couple got back together... to live happily ever after!
But like all good things, those teenage years come to an end, and the die-hard romantic is forced to grow up. And then she becomes the skeptic, who then starts asking at the end of every such movie, what if they argue again? What if there is a misunderstanding again? What if there is a 3rd person in their lives, AGAIN? Given that the 2 hour movie just showed me a million and one ways in which the relationship could go wrong, how can they then promise me at the end, that all will be happy henceforth??!!
A relationship, or love, is not a destination. Its a journey. And however much we want it to be static in a way, it still is dynamic. ;-)

Thank You Note

Today I was arranging my cupboard and found my old bag with few cards in it.This took me flooded back to days when I had a wonderful habit.I used to send a Thank You note to people who did something good to me,people who brought a moment of joy and to people who knowingly or unknowingly inspired me.But as I got tangled in this busy life this gesture of mine was totally forgotten.Today arraning my cupboard somehow made me realise that my life needs to be arranged a little.I had to thank soo many people in recent days who brought happiness in my life.
Few acts have the power to build and cement relationships like a heart-felt Thank You note.It shows you care and you are considerate and human.
Simple gesture like this can make your presence felt even in your absence.
Try this out,am sure this will make you actually feel very happy.

Prioritize....

"When from our better selves we have too long been parted by the hurrying world,sick of its business,of its pleasure tired,how gracious,how benign is solutide."
-William Wordsworth

Was reading a book which was in my shelf from past few months.Every time I used to see that book I felt that "Guess book is not for younsters"...(the book was a gift)...

Today after reading that book I truly understood the meaning of saying..."Never estimate the book based on the cover".The book is filled of simple wisdom that anyone can benefit from.There was one chapter which jus left a mark in my heart...

It says"Its not enough to be busy,so are ants.The question is what are you so busy about?"

The story of an old lighthouse keeper.The man had only a limited amount of oil to keep his beacon lit so that passing ships could avoid the rocky shore.One night,a man who lived close by needed to borrow some of this precious commodity to light his home,so the lighthouse keeper gave him some of his own.Another night,a traveller begged for some oil to light his lamp to keep on traveling.The housekeeper gave him the amount he needed.The next night,the house keeper was awakened by a mother banging on his door.She prayed for some oil so that she could illuminated her home and feed her family.Again he agreed.Soon all his oil was gone and his beacon went out.Many ships ran aground and many lives were lost becoz the lighthouse keeper forgot to focus on his priority.

Everybody should keep themselves centered on thier highest priorityin life.
Book title: Who will cry when you Die

Author: Robin Sharma

Publication:Jaico Books.

Infinite Opportunities

Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
- Robert Frost

I felt this piece of poetry of Frost is closly related to all our lifes.It is not a complain about 24 hours being too less. It is not about how there is too much work to do everyday, and not enough time. It is about the choices that are available to us these days, and how, regardless of how well we manage time, we can never avail all sides of our choices. It is about the stress of infinite opportunities. I could either take driving lessons, or swimming classes or study or visit friends, over the weekend. I cant do all. More decisions we make, more roads we leave untraveled.
And sometimes, we wish we could take all the roads...