Patriotism towards your city????

I am from "ABC" city...my place is famous for blah blah blah.....

Guess most of you hav come across such kind of conversation...same here...was recently travelling to my hometown....and the co-passengers sitting behind my seat started the conversation with most usual topic...."Am from ABC city"

And yes these people were from one of the most happening city of the world as they proclaimed....
This led my interest to eavesdrop the conversation.....
Yes,these people belonged to this set of cities{Delhi,Mumbai,Kolkatta,Bangalore,Chennai}.....Well i dont belong to this set of cities and i dont hav a problem with that...that doesn mean that i have a problem with these cities either....I heard one person say he is a delhi-ite....and how proud he is of the capital city...then the other person say that he is mumbaiya...and nowhere in the world you can people as helpful as in mumbai...
Yea....people usually get emotional and argumentive in comparing thier cities....I hav no complaints about this...I've always respected their feelings they have about their city/town/village....
Everybody loves thier cities...and if u have your childhood memeories attached with that place...you are familar with evry road and lane of that place...then u have every right to be proud of that place..regardless whether its the most renowed city or not....By all means be proud of wherever you belong to....
One thing i get anger about people is proclaiming thier city/town as the best in the world....well u haven't seen the whole world have you???....and yea people passing judgement about other cities...the malice with our society is that we have far more opinions than information...........

I know most of you will agree with me on this.....

CLICK....

Yeee...its weekend again..the most awaited day of the week...

Am done wit my work....today was real hectic...loaded wit work...amidst all the work,one of my colleague's last day in the company...
Ya one more person is exploring new options in life...this made me think about something which never ever CLICKED to me....
How do we meet some people...and then click as friends....
Not all good friendships are going to last forever...this doesn mean that its the end of friendship ....
Sometimes it may happen that...we may get introduced to a person by a friend...and then that person becomes our vry gud friend than the common friend who introduced us....now that is what i call 'CLICK' in friendship.....
In college days i used to hang out with my frends for hours together..but now we hardly meet once in six months....I used to chat with a friend in school for hours... but now i dont even know where is she...it is not because I din wanted to keep in touch..but i guess we moved on with time...some friendships are actually meant to last a while...
I will never ever think that it was the end of our frienship or be sorry for the long silence.....will rather cherish the good times which we had together...
Good friends are those with whom i can relate...eventhough i havnt spoken to them for years....yet feel like they are always there for me anytime....

Why do I blog........

Guess...this is the topic every person who blogs might hav jotted atleast once in thier post....

Recently some of my frends read my blogs...gav compliments....ye i must say my friends compliment vry humorously...
This made me wonder y do i blog????
Hmmm...I blog not because i want to be complimented by others...or commented by others.
I blog coz I want to express my thoughts...I think a lot..infact too much..analyse on various topics like friendship,professionalism,relationship,trust n blah blah blah........
These thoughts cant be dissussed or debated with evrybody...but I need some or the other way to throw out..more appropriately..express these thoughts ....So I blog.....
I blog coz...I want to....it is not a complusion to me...It is not a daily column in the newpaper that I hav to do it...It is not because I want to impress people who read it...I am under no pressure....Still I blog...Coz "I Want To BLOG"...its all about my satisfaction...my thoughts...my views ...It is interseting to see various comments you get... some appreciation and some discontent about your thoughts...This allows me to share my thoughts not only with my fredns and aquaintance but also with numerous people who are absolute strangers to me...still giv thier opinions on my views...So I blog....

The day when i find a more creative hobby than blogging...guess I will switch to it....
"Change is inevitable"....You see...Geez.....
Ye...I hav an excuse for everything....lol......

Being all Alone......

Hmmm...sounds like a full girlish topic right.Geez....
Until now i had never been to shopping all alone,but some days ago all my friends were busy with thier own plans.It was weekend and as always i was at home reading a novel...i was watching a program on NDTV Goodtimes..."Single Female Traveller". Thought its fun to be all alone.....be yourself..go whereever you feel like going...Ye...i got ready and was all set to spend the whole evening in one of the most famous shopping joints ofBangalore and i was all alone...listening to music..i roamed around...althought din shop much but was enjoying evry moment..Am i sounding like a phsyco..well guess not..you may be wondering who the hell in this world want to bealone...well i must tel you..try it... its total fun. Guess it was fun for me coz after a real long time..I gave time to myself..was just myself..No work pressure...No commenting on others(Secret..thats what we fredns do when we go out together..comment on evry Tom dick a harry) No coordinating with others as where to go next...no checking the list what to buy... Came back home and for the first time was feeling good aftr shopping(hehehe usually wil be dead tired)...This gives me a wild idea of going for a vacation all by myself....."single female traveller" U see...Geez....

Modernzation........

Last weekend was kinda hectic as i had travelled 600 kms...was a kind of piligrimage trip.While visiting all these places..a thought triggered me which kept me busy along my journey...

I am talking about Modernzation.....the temples are soo vry modernizied that now its become soo commericial....i sound like complain n whine about all these like every other person but ya...it really hurts you when you wintness all these ....the place which is supposed to be abode of peace is now soo noisy as market...i shouldnt be saying this as it may hurt the feelings of many devotees...but fact remains fact....modernization to a certain extent is good when it is confined to providing facilities but at the end...some things in life should always remain unmodernized...remote...n peacefull...After this trip i realised infact am cherishing the value of simplicity in life....

Everything is going to be OK...

There are times when i completely run out of words...specially when am trying to console someone...does dat person really needs u say..."Evrything is going to be ok"...when u yourself know that...it wont..how can that be?

Most awakward situation will be when that person is not that close to you...U will have that all made up sentence "Sorry about your loss...My condolence".When you know your condolence wont really help him to come out of this....If it was someone close to me i would hav given a hug...sometimes you don need to say something...but if that person is far away...phone conversation wuldn help....

Loss of life or something precious is always a loss...my saying everything is gonna be OK will not change it...You have to live your entire life with that...my being there will not make any difference.....

Wondering about........

One of good friend commented in the blog..write something of your own…am soo used to write in my private dairy that I hardly feel it comfortable to pen down something I feel in an online dairy (wel…thats what I call blog as J)…..
Let me write about this topic that I always keep on wondering about

What does actually FRIENDS mean to ME……

Seeme like a tough topic to put down in words….

Well my best friend is a person…who can tell me how arrogant and stubborn I am on the face and still likes to spend time with me….to whom I can go at any point of time n chit chat wit the most nonsense topic and still feel that i had a gud discussion…wil nvr feel like ending a conversation eventhough am feeling dead sleepy….
The only person who wuldnt be happy abut some good news I give, because it would mean I will have to go away….
Listening to me complain and whine about life and never make an attempt to give advice…
Am a person who looks like an extrovert to everyone but is actually an introvert in nature…

But to my Best Frend am an OPEN book……..